I have a friend whose passion is music, but once she got a job in the industry she became disenchanted with it.
Same thing happened to me with sex.
Once it became a job, I just couldn’t enjoy it as much anymore.
In the end, just as my music friend decided to quit her job, I hung up my pimp hat and went back to “doing it” just for the love and the passion.
Sex became casual again, like it’s meant to be…